As the holiday season approaches, we start hearing
Christmas songs everywhere, holiday lights are popping up at dusk and
everything makes us enjoy the holiday spirit. Right?
Maybe everything isn’t all that perfect. The holiday season
brings the pressure of holiday shopping, the stress of hosting a family visit,
and traveling during the busiest time of the year. Even feeling happy during the
holidays can be a challenge.
Christmas Movie
One of my favorite Christmas movies is Mixed Nuts. It is a Christmas comedy which
was based on the French movie Le
père Noël est une ordure. My
favorite part of the movie is when the main character Philip, played by Steve
Martin, said: ”…Christmas is a time when you look at your life through a magnifying
glass and whatever you don’t have feels overwhelming. Being alone is so much
lonelier at Christmas. Everything sad is so much sadder at Christmas…” These
words are simple, but they seem to cut deeply into my soul. Somehow, we have a
higher expectation for ourselves during the holiday season than we do the rest
of the year.
Higher
Expectation During The Holidays
During the year,
we are so busy with our daily activities that we do not have the extra time to
think about things, we did not achieve or the things that did
not happen for us. However, over the holidays, disappointing dreams seem to be
more painful. On top of this, the media gives us a clear message regarding the
proper way to celebrate the holidays. Beautiful and seemingly harmless
Christmas commercials want to sell us material things, which are supposed to
bring happiness to our lives and make our holidays truly jolly. Real life is
different from the images presented to us on television. A simple
toy can make a child feel delighted, but it takes more to make adult feel truly
happy.
Tips How
To Stay Healthy Over Holidays
As grown-ups, we can be
realistic with our expectations and stay in a healthy mind during the holidays.
If you are getting stressful
over the holiday season, try to plan ahead, stay under budget and take the opportunity
for online shopping to save time and stay away from crowded malls. You do not
need to be a perfectionist. Do not
forget to give yourself a break from the holiday preparation. Try to find some
time to go for a walk, read a few pages of your favorite book, or even take a
nap.
Remember that we are all
different and our family members and friends are not perfect. Things can
happen. There is nothing we can do about the behaviors of other people towards
us, but we can manage our reaction towards their attitude. Try to stay in a
healthy mindset by keeping up with your physical activity program, eating
healthy and finding time for yourself. The exercise program can be shorter over
the holidays, but do not stop exercising.
Keep up with it! Try to eat
healthy snacks before holiday parties.
This will help you to make better choices for your holiday meals and stay
on a nutritionally balanced diet over the holidays.
If you cannot spend the holidays
with your loved ones for any number of reasons, try to concentrate on a
positive time you shared with them during the year or at some time in the
past. Volunteer work may be a good option to help others. People who need your support will surround you
with their gratitude. Concentrating on the
religious part of the holidays makes you think deep about life and become a wiser
person.
In The End
Preparing for the holidays often
takes many hours, but a holiday is a day filled with 24 hours. It will pass by
like any other day. The next dawn will bring a new morning and new beginning. The
holiday will become a part of your past made up of (hopefully) happy memories.
No matter how stressful the
holiday season can be, it brings color to our life. Only we can create holiday
spirit for ourselves. Every December, the same story repeats itself but there
is always a place for the hope of holiday magic. “ … The holidays are not over
yet… Who knows…”, what magic awaits us this year?
Health, Happiness, and Harmony
Kay
References
Healthy
Lifestyle Stress Management. (2017, Sept.16). In Mayoclinic. Retrieved December 4, 2017 from https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/stress/art-20047544
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